BBQ Weddings & Special Events Catering

Make Your Wedding or Special Celebration Truly Unforgettable

BBQ wedding catering San Diego services by Abbey’s Real Texas BBQ bring unforgettable flavor and authentic Texas-style cooking to weddings, anniversaries, engagement parties, and barbecue party catering throughout the region. Your celebration deserves exceptional food that feels memorable, comforting, and crafted with care.

When it comes to unforgettable celebrations, our team specializes in bbq catering for weddings that combines authentic flavor with seamless service. We understand that your wedding day should be stress-free and memorable, which is why our bbq catering for weddings is designed to impress guests with slow-smoked meats, classic sides, and a warm, welcoming atmosphere. From intimate ceremonies to large wedding receptions, we handle every detail with care, allowing couples to relax and enjoy their special day while we deliver exceptional food and professional catering service.

We offer full-service bbq wedding catering San Diego couples trust for reliability, consistency, and warm hospitality. Whether you're hosting an intimate gathering or a large celebration with hundreds of guests, our team ensures a seamless, organized, and delicious experience from start to finish.

Abbey’s specializes in bbq wedding catering, special bbq events, rehearsal dinners, anniversaries, engagement parties, bbq birthday celebrations, outdoor gatherings, and barbecue party catering across San Diego. We bring slow-smoked Texas barbecue, fresh daily sides, and dependable service your guests will truly enjoy.

Why Couples Choose Abbey’s for Wedding BBQ Catering in San Diego

Our authentic Texas-style barbecue is slow-smoked to perfection using cast iron smokers built in Texas and fueled by green oak and mesquite. Brisket is smoked for 18 to 24 hours. Pork shoulder is cooked bone-in to enhance tenderness and flavor. Every side dish—beans, rice, coleslaw, chili, and more—is made fresh daily using family recipes passed down for generations.

To learn more about our family’s story, visit:

Our cooking has been featured on Fox 5 San Diego, where our brisket and ribs were highlighted for their rich Texas flavor and traditional smoking techniques. Watch the feature below:

Our slow-smoked meats and signature flavors also appeared in a short film celebrating our craft and decades of dedication:

Best BBQ Catering for Weddings, Receptions & Special Events in San Diego

For wedding catering San Diego couples rely on, Abbey’s Real Texas BBQ delivers a stress-free, fully managed catering experience. We provide everything needed to serve your guests with ease:

• Plates and utensils
• Serving tools
• Fresh salads and sides
• Slow-smoked meats served hot
• Cookies and desserts
• Setup and on-time delivery

Our BBQ Catering in San Diego Is Ideal For:

BBQ wedding receptions
Rehearsal dinners
Engagement parties
Anniversaries
BBQ birthday celebrations
Graduations
Outdoor BBQ weddings
Family reunions
Private estate events
Rustic-themed or BBQ-style weddings
BBQ party catering for celebrations

Our food pairs beautifully with beach weddings, backyard celebrations, barns, wineries, breweries, estates, and elegant indoor venues. No matter your theme, our catering brings comfort, flavor, and warm hospitality.

BBQ Wedding Party & Event Menu Options

All catering packages include plates, utensils, serving spoons, salads, sides, and fresh cookies. Every dish is prepared fresh on the day of your event and delivered hot. Our menu works beautifully for weddings and celebrations of all sizes.

Whether your guests prefer brisket, ribs, chicken, sausage, sandwiches, or vegetarian-friendly sides, our options ensure everyone enjoys something delicious. Our bbq service is also ideal for outdoor weddings, private estates, and venues that allow outside catering.

A Family Tradition for Over 40 Years

Abbey’s Real Texas BBQ is built on strong family roots, community values, and a passion for authentic Texas barbecue. Since 1987, Matt and Athena Shlemon have grown Abbey’s into one of San Diego’s most trusted catering companies.

Their children grew up working in the restaurant, helping carry on family traditions and supporting operations as the business expanded. Today, Abbey’s remains proudly family-operated, dedicated to consistency and quality.

Ready to Plan Your BBQ Wedding or Special Event?

Whether you're planning a barbecue wedding, reception, engagement party, rehearsal dinner, anniversary, or any special celebration, Abbey’s Real Texas BBQ offers bbq catering for wedding​ in San Diego couples trust for exceptional flavor and dependable service.

Scroll down to explore the BBQ menu or complete the catering request form to begin planning your event.

We look forward to being part of your special day.